Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Valentine Week - A Big Array Of Days For Love........

Valentine Week is celebrated as a festival from 7 February to 14 February every year. The week long festival across the world is well-liked among people of all age group and especially among youth. Youngsters do not want to miss a chance to celebrate any day like rose day, propose day, chocolate day, teddy day, promise day, kiss day, hug day, and valentine day in Valentine Week. Love spreads in the atmosphere especially during the Valentine Week. People enjoy every day of Valentine Week by their heart.






Valentine Week includes various events to be celebrated by people of all age group. People express their love towards their beloved ones during Valentine Week. People, especially youth, propose to boyfriend, girlfriend, friend and relatives during this week. Valentine’s Day is believed the most romantic day for which lovers wait the entire year. Youngsters bunk their classes or take leave from work to spend some time at some special place with their loved one during Valentine Week. Also they they send love messages, greetings, scraps, SMS about the feeling of your love to their loved one for celebrating Valentine Week.

Days of Valentine Week:

Rose day:



Rose day is celebrated on 7 February and it is the first day of Valentine Week. People give roses to their boyfriend, girlfriend, friend, wives, husbands, and relatives on rose day. Red rose is the symbol of love, and the finest present for a couple on this day of Valentine week. Roses contain different colors and each color has its own importance. Purple roses are given to express that the one, who present the purple rose, has fallen in love with the recipient at first view. Yellow roses are the symbol of friendship and joy. Feelings of admiration and sympathy are expressed by pink roses. A bouquet of white roses indicates a harmonious relationship with friend.

Propose day:



Propose day is the second day of Valentines week and celebrated on 8 February. Propose day can become a special day by adolescence when they proposing the girl in a style of getting their knees down. Propose Day SMS could prove to be your savior, in case one stays far from his/her loved one. Propose Day is actually enjoyable and one can take benefit of this special day by proposing to his desired girl that he had been eyeing for a quiet some time. People gift their beloved one a romantic evening followed by romantic cuisine with cold duck and sharing their deep thoughts on how much they want each other on Propose Day.

Chocolate day:



Chocolate day is celebrated on 9 February and the third day of Valentines week. People increase sweetness in their relationship to newer heights by giving their favorite chocolate boxes to their loved ones on this day. However, before purchasing chocolates for your beloved, ensure you itemize each gift such as heart-shaped chocolates for your loved one, mixed chocolates for your friends and sugar-free chocolates for your parents.

Teddy day:



Teddy day is celebrated on 10 February and the fourth day of Valentines week. Teddy bears are the best gift for the girls because of teddy bears are much liked by girls. So youngsters present a cuddly soft toy to each other and celebrate teddy day during Valentine Week.

Promise day:


The fifth day of Valentines week is promise day that is celebrated on 11 February. Promises are made by people to their loved ones on this day. People assure to live with their loved ones by their promises on promise day. People can renew their love oath or promise on this day but they need to make those promises that they can definitely maintain as promises are made to be kept.

Kiss day:


12 February, sixth day of Valentines week is celebrated as kiss day. People can express their heartfelt feelings for their loved one by this silent expression of love. People can make this day immortal forever by sealing their love in each other’s heart.

Hug day:

Hug day is celebrated on 13 February, seventh day of Valentines week. Hug is the treatment for all small day to day fights. Hug day could definitely be the best lead up to the Valentines Day. Hug is one more expression of feelings, which need not to be spoken loudly. People give a hug to their loved one to show their love, thanks or appreciation towards their beloved one.

Valentine day:

14 February, 8th day of Valentines week is celebrated as valentine day. Valentines Day is very popular worldwide and recognized as a day to express love. People celebrate the most beautiful feeling on this universe called Love on this day. With different creative ideas, people can express their deep love and affection to make this day memorable for their loved one. People can try many romantic ideas from a romantic dinner to watching a romantic movie for spending time with their partner. People also send Valentine’s Day greeting cards or love quotes to their loved one, these can do magic in your love life.

Sunday, February 5, 2012

The Internet Is A Dangerous Place



I read some of things online, while just searching one day for some comfort in my pain of losing my love - online.
We met each other in a chat room. She was full of life and she seemed to always lift me up whenever I needed it. Well, days went by and I stopped going into that chat room. She instant messaged me one afternoon and told me that she had missed me. Weeks after that, and even months we began getting closer to each other, growing close, bonding and I fell in love with her, she fell in love with me. The problem was that she was married, 10 years older than me, and she had 3 boys. I know this sounds bad, but believe me I tried to fight it. I couldn't, and she was so nice and sweet to me. I had never felt this way before about anyone. But months went on and we decided to be together, see no one else, and just be with each other and soon meet.
Well the meeting part never happened:-( I found out in our time of being together that she had been emailing her old online boyfriend love letters and being quite sexual with him. She had me emotionally and never have I recovered we were together for a year. Emotionally I can't function and I hope one day, someone will come along outside of the internet and show me the right way.
Just a little note to people, Don't EVER fall for anyone online unless you know them inside out. The internet is a dangerous place. It was in my wrong, that I actually would Call her house, but I couldn't till after her husband went to work and her boys were in bed. I've had many ulcers and became very depressed. I found church to be uplifting, and it's raised my self-esteem quite a bit. I'm still trying to "let go" I confronted her about the letters that her old online boyfriend had been sending me, to try to help me to get away from her. I'm sad, yet happy that he did that for me. I confronted her about the letters on the phone, I could hardly speak. The pain was so great, how could someone I have never met have this much affect on me? Love is unbelievable. I don't know whether to love her, or hate her anymore.
She still tries to email me, and I've blocked her from Instant messaging me. I know that, in time I will heal, but the best thing that came out of this was, I grew, and I know a lot more than what I did before all of this. I have learned to take time, and to look deeper into the situation of Love, or being with someone. And not getting involved with someone that has already been married.

A letter to Ex-Girl Friend



Dear Monisha,
Thanks for being my love for one and half years, when you receive this letter I believe you might have selected new boyfriend and started enjoying your dating.
Every lovers needs to struggle a bit to get a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Monisha … In order to recover your missing, I got another girl & as you know this is my forth love, from all my past experiences I have learned a lot.

When the love blossoms everyone starts writing love letter, you know very well………… I have written many letter to you, and writing a love letter in poetic way is not so easy nowadays MONISHA, and it’s a time consuming work, In order to avoid all this I need all my lover letters back so that I can put corrector and send to my new girlfriend, please send it back to me, I don’t have poetic references or any photocopy of these letters.

Another thing MONISHA, I have given you one cute photo of mine , can you send it to me please , you know better that this is the only photo I look very cute & handsome and this photo I have taken when I was in my very first love.

And also, during my 1 ½ years of love days I have spent lot of monies for impressing you, I am attaching list of expenses which I request you to clear it at earliest...

The expenses are as follows: Lunch / Dinner Rs.1895/-, Cool Drinks Rs.938, Snacks Rs.645/-, Juice Rs.345/-Cinema Rs. 1000/-. Internet Chatting Rs500/-Mobile Recharge Rs.1800/-, Petrol Rs. 2500/- , Gift Items Rs.850/- Grand Total: Rs.10437/- (in Words Ten Thousand Four Hundred and Thirty Seven Rupees).

Please try to clear the above amount so that I can spend these monies on my new girlfriend, and more over if you have of my gift lying with you, am ready to take these packs in half prices. Please calculate the value of packs left over and deduct it from the above statements of account.

I am enclosing herewith your love letters so that you no need to write again to your boyfriend and your photo so that you can give to BF.

Also, please advise your expenses which incurred during our dates, I don’t think you have got any expenditure. During these dates, I have seen many times that you always forget your purse when it comes to pay.

Anyway I hope you will clear the above outstanding at the earliest and wishing you a very wonderful 6th love affair with Suhail.

Your Ex-lover,
SJN